Sweet Friends,
Today a dear friend asked me this question:
Question: Mother, please share with me the meaning of marriage. Nowadays marriage stands on money, status, power & position. Love, kindness & understanding is not to be found.
What is the real meaning of marriage mother ?
What is the real meaning of marriage mother ?
Answer:
Thank you for asking this question dear one. I do not claim to know much, but let me share the meaning of marriage from my experience.
Marriage means a sacred union. And this Union is always a union between the human and the Divine in order to make grand creations. The creations can be another being, it can be love, it can be kindness, it can be any kind of benevolence given to the planet and humanity.
Marriage is not necessarily a union between a man and a woman, it is more of a sacred union between beings who are willing to bestow generosity, kindness, and blessing towards each other, and through their actions they experience the Sacred Divine Presence in all creation.
So a marriage/holy union can happen between your physical self and your divine self (which is called self realization), a marriage/holy union can happen between people who are willing to experience true giving and receiving from each other, a marriage/holy union can happen between humanity and the planet where humanity realizes its Divinity and bestows unconditional love towards this sacred Planet that has been giving so much of itself unconditionally for the well being of humanity.
Hence a true marriage can happen when a person is able to go beyond ego and allow Divine love to flow through them, for every step of any union leads to experiences that would lead to the questioning of the ego, and only when a person is able to stand firm in Divine love they will be able to go beyond the ego.
A marriage between two people can be true only when they allow the Divine to merge with their union. For the love of the Divine is unconditional and compassionate. People who want to be married in truth need to first marry their physical self to their Divine self, invite their Divine self/the Sacred I AM Presence into every act of living so that their thoughts, words and actions are clear, pure and non-judgmental.
When one is able to do this, then this person is complete in themselves and they do not need another to complete them - either socially or financially. This person is fully capable of sharing unconditional love in any kind of partnership. And the most beautiful thing is that the Universe benevolently bestows on them the kind of partners who are in their level of consciousness, because these people trust life and they expect miracles all the time.
Entering a union for status, power, or wealth cannot become a marriage, it can only be a wedding of business dealings, it becomes a union of convenience but it is a union of poverty because it lacks unconditional love.
Love helps the growth of all virtues for the people involved in the union, it helps to create, harmony, balance, satisfaction, wisdom, patience, generosity, growth and expansion of consciousness mentally and spiritually. And of course this is the meaning and purpose of a physical experience in a human form, and marriage creates space to achieve this purpose.
A wedding is just a event but a marriage becomes a space created lovingly for two beings to grow and rejoice in the experience of each other. When weddings do not involve the relationship with the Divine, they cannot become a marriage.
Trust that I have answered your question my dear friend.
Blessings!
Premlatha Rajkumar
Thank you for asking this question dear one. I do not claim to know much, but let me share the meaning of marriage from my experience.
Marriage means a sacred union. And this Union is always a union between the human and the Divine in order to make grand creations. The creations can be another being, it can be love, it can be kindness, it can be any kind of benevolence given to the planet and humanity.
Marriage is not necessarily a union between a man and a woman, it is more of a sacred union between beings who are willing to bestow generosity, kindness, and blessing towards each other, and through their actions they experience the Sacred Divine Presence in all creation.
So a marriage/holy union can happen between your physical self and your divine self (which is called self realization), a marriage/holy union can happen between people who are willing to experience true giving and receiving from each other, a marriage/holy union can happen between humanity and the planet where humanity realizes its Divinity and bestows unconditional love towards this sacred Planet that has been giving so much of itself unconditionally for the well being of humanity.
Hence a true marriage can happen when a person is able to go beyond ego and allow Divine love to flow through them, for every step of any union leads to experiences that would lead to the questioning of the ego, and only when a person is able to stand firm in Divine love they will be able to go beyond the ego.
A marriage between two people can be true only when they allow the Divine to merge with their union. For the love of the Divine is unconditional and compassionate. People who want to be married in truth need to first marry their physical self to their Divine self, invite their Divine self/the Sacred I AM Presence into every act of living so that their thoughts, words and actions are clear, pure and non-judgmental.
When one is able to do this, then this person is complete in themselves and they do not need another to complete them - either socially or financially. This person is fully capable of sharing unconditional love in any kind of partnership. And the most beautiful thing is that the Universe benevolently bestows on them the kind of partners who are in their level of consciousness, because these people trust life and they expect miracles all the time.
Entering a union for status, power, or wealth cannot become a marriage, it can only be a wedding of business dealings, it becomes a union of convenience but it is a union of poverty because it lacks unconditional love.
Love helps the growth of all virtues for the people involved in the union, it helps to create, harmony, balance, satisfaction, wisdom, patience, generosity, growth and expansion of consciousness mentally and spiritually. And of course this is the meaning and purpose of a physical experience in a human form, and marriage creates space to achieve this purpose.
A wedding is just a event but a marriage becomes a space created lovingly for two beings to grow and rejoice in the experience of each other. When weddings do not involve the relationship with the Divine, they cannot become a marriage.
Trust that I have answered your question my dear friend.
Blessings!
Premlatha Rajkumar
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