QUESTION AND ANSWER
Some dear friends were asking this question:
Q: If people in our life are negative or are not on the right path, we feel so frustrated. Can we stop them from doing what they are doing? How can we best help them? What would you do in this situation?
A:
Everything in this Planet begins from within us. First we must work on ourselves by loving ourselves and choosing to let go negative judgmental thoughts about things or people around us. These are blocks that do not allow us to see clearly. So when we first work on ourselves, the light of the Divine will flow through us, then we will be choosing wise decisions.
When we are fully empowered then we can help someone only when they ask us to. Otherwise we cannot help them in the right way, we will only become more frustrated and even more judgmental, adding more to the problem they are already facing.
Above all one must completely trust life, life is always kind.
Life places certain things in peoples path in order for them to learn and gather wisdom from it.
Life is our teacher, you cannot take control or teach anyone anything. Only life experiences can do this for us.
Allow people to go through life experiences, pray for them if you can and do not judge.
If you ask me what I would do in this situation, I will choose to pray that the person be given wisdom and strength to deal with the situation. I choose not to interfere; only if they ask for help I can help in the possible way I can.
I choose to completely trust the wisdom of life here and stop believing my mind stories of judgment about the person or situation.
And when we work on ourselves everyday, like loving ourselves and letting go negative thoughts, I have noticed that the light of our Presence will shine so much that when we are near this person we need not say or do anything, our light from within us will show them the path.
Trust that I answered your question.
Blessings!
Premlatha Rajkumar
Some dear friends were asking this question:
Q: If people in our life are negative or are not on the right path, we feel so frustrated. Can we stop them from doing what they are doing? How can we best help them? What would you do in this situation?
A:
Everything in this Planet begins from within us. First we must work on ourselves by loving ourselves and choosing to let go negative judgmental thoughts about things or people around us. These are blocks that do not allow us to see clearly. So when we first work on ourselves, the light of the Divine will flow through us, then we will be choosing wise decisions.
When we are fully empowered then we can help someone only when they ask us to. Otherwise we cannot help them in the right way, we will only become more frustrated and even more judgmental, adding more to the problem they are already facing.
Above all one must completely trust life, life is always kind.
Life places certain things in peoples path in order for them to learn and gather wisdom from it.
Life is our teacher, you cannot take control or teach anyone anything. Only life experiences can do this for us.
Allow people to go through life experiences, pray for them if you can and do not judge.
If you ask me what I would do in this situation, I will choose to pray that the person be given wisdom and strength to deal with the situation. I choose not to interfere; only if they ask for help I can help in the possible way I can.
I choose to completely trust the wisdom of life here and stop believing my mind stories of judgment about the person or situation.
And when we work on ourselves everyday, like loving ourselves and letting go negative thoughts, I have noticed that the light of our Presence will shine so much that when we are near this person we need not say or do anything, our light from within us will show them the path.
Trust that I answered your question.
Blessings!
Premlatha Rajkumar
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