ADDICTIONS OF HUMANITY
Judgment and blame games are easy addictions.
Every time a bad situation happens, we search for reasons outside instead of looking within for solutions and improvement.
As a society we are never taught responsibility. Since society revolves around reward and punishments, growing up as children we were scared of punishments & greedy for rewards. We felt good to put the blame on someone or something to protect ourselves and free ourselves from taking responsibility.
It is easy to blame someone else even though we know we are at fault. Blame not only hurts the person we blame but it also hurts us, it hurts our very inner being.
We constantly give reasons to determine that we are a victim, we never learn to grow up and we stop taking responsibility. This leads to discord in all areas of life, at the job, at relationships, managing finances, managing our surroundings, life in general becomes one sad story after another.
Judging on how awful everyone else is, we like playing victims. We stop believing in our possibilities and don't take responsibility for ourselves.
Judging and marking people as culprits we continue to disrespect people , we speak and act in a disrespectful manner. This world is not a courtroom and you are not the judge, people are not idiots or thugs just because they do dumb things.
We are grand beings living in these human bodies. We eagerly came into these physical bodies to be the love that we are. Anything we do against this becomes stress. Today the entire world is affected by the sickness of stress because we forgot to be the love that we are. We continue our addictions with judgments and blame games.
It is time to put an end to these childish vices. It is time to look within for answers and solutions. It is time to live with courage and responsibility. For truly this is who we are, everything away from courage or responsibility is an illusion!
Let us choose to live as the grand beings that we are!
Blessings!
Premlatha Rajkumar
© PRajkumar, 2018
Judgment and blame games are easy addictions.
Every time a bad situation happens, we search for reasons outside instead of looking within for solutions and improvement.
As a society we are never taught responsibility. Since society revolves around reward and punishments, growing up as children we were scared of punishments & greedy for rewards. We felt good to put the blame on someone or something to protect ourselves and free ourselves from taking responsibility.
It is easy to blame someone else even though we know we are at fault. Blame not only hurts the person we blame but it also hurts us, it hurts our very inner being.
We constantly give reasons to determine that we are a victim, we never learn to grow up and we stop taking responsibility. This leads to discord in all areas of life, at the job, at relationships, managing finances, managing our surroundings, life in general becomes one sad story after another.
Judging on how awful everyone else is, we like playing victims. We stop believing in our possibilities and don't take responsibility for ourselves.
Judging and marking people as culprits we continue to disrespect people , we speak and act in a disrespectful manner. This world is not a courtroom and you are not the judge, people are not idiots or thugs just because they do dumb things.
We are grand beings living in these human bodies. We eagerly came into these physical bodies to be the love that we are. Anything we do against this becomes stress. Today the entire world is affected by the sickness of stress because we forgot to be the love that we are. We continue our addictions with judgments and blame games.
It is time to put an end to these childish vices. It is time to look within for answers and solutions. It is time to live with courage and responsibility. For truly this is who we are, everything away from courage or responsibility is an illusion!
Let us choose to live as the grand beings that we are!
Blessings!
Premlatha Rajkumar
© PRajkumar, 2018
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